Hot Mess to Higher Self with Diana Fjer

The Attachment Series Pt. 3 - The Hot & Cold

Episode Summary

If you’ve ever craved love but struggled to trust it, this episode is for you. We’re diving deep into Fearful Avoidant attachment—why it creates the push-pull cycle in relationships, how it affects your nervous system, and the exact steps to start healing and finding emotional security.

Episode Notes

🎙 Episode 5: The Hot & Cold – Healing Fearful Avoidant Attachment & Finding Emotional Security

Have you ever wanted deep connection but found yourself doubting it the moment it’s in front of you? Do you overanalyze relationships, searching for proof that love isn’t real? If so, you might have a Fearful Avoidant attachment style.

In this episode, we’re breaking down:
✨ The push-pull cycle of Fearful Avoidant attachment
✨ Why FA attachment makes trusting love feel impossible
✨ How this pattern shows up in relationships, friendships, and even career dynamics
✨ The exact steps to start healing—nervous system regulation, somatic work, chakra healing, and inner child integration

You can break free from this cycle and experience love that feels safe, steady, and fulfilling. Let's dive in.

📌 Resources & Next Steps
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