Hot Mess to Higher Self with Diana Fjer

The Real Reason You’re Always Overthinking Your Relationship

Episode Summary

If your brain never shuts off around your relationship, this episode is for you. We’re diving into the real reason you overthink — hint: it’s not your personality, it’s your nervous system — and I’ll walk you through two powerful self-healing practices to find peace within yourself, not just your partner.

Episode Notes

In this juicy milestone episode, we’re talking all things relationship overthinking — why it happens, what it really means, and how to finally interrupt the cycle so you can feel grounded in love.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

💭 Why overthinking is a nervous system response, not a personal flaw

👧 How your childhood shaped your need to stay on high alert

🧘 Two powerful practices to calm your mind and regulate your energy

🖊️ Journal prompts to help you break the cycle and create safety within

💡 The truth about peace: it doesn’t come from him — it comes from you

 

Journal Prompts from this episode:

When I’m overthinking, what am I afraid will happen if I stop?

What do I wish he would say or do that I’m trying to find between the lines?

How can I offer that reassurance to myself right now?

 

If you’re ready to stop spiraling, start trusting, and create a relationship that feels like home (instead of a mental war zone), this one’s for you.

🧠 Share this episode with a friend who overthinks everything (we all know one).